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‘Abide With Me’ will Stay Forever

Cedric Prakash Cedric Prakash
07 Feb 2022
The tune ‘Abide With Me’ was dropped from this year’s ‘Beating Retreat’ programme

Outside St. Michael’s Church in Mahim Mumbai is a powerful slogan. “God will always abide with me, even if I retreat!” In many ways this creative caption sums up the raging controversy on ‘Abide With Me’ that has been on prime-time news and on social media recently. 

The tune ‘Abide With Me’ was dropped from this year’s ‘Beating Retreat’ programme which was held on 29 January as the culmination of the events on and around Republic Day. ‘Abide With Me’ has been one of the staple tunes at the ceremony since 1950 and was Mahatma Gandhi’s favourite.

The spokesperson of the Defence Ministry did not offer any comment as to why this immortal composition was dropped.  Plenty of unofficial reasons are being flaunted for doing so. 

The Government had planned to drop ‘Abide With Me’ in 2020 from the Beating Retreat ceremony but had later retained it after a huge nationwide uproar. This time also there was a groundswell of protest. But the Government was unrelenting. Over the years, they have systematically destroyed the secular, impartial and objective credentials of the defence establishment.

‘Abide With Me’ was composed by a Scottish Anglican Henry Francis Lyte. It is a prayer to God to stay with the one praying throughout life, through trials and tribulations and even in death; it was written by Lyte in 1847 as he was dying from tuberculosis. Apparently Lyte first wrote it when he visited an old friend, William Le Hunte, who was dying. As Lyte sat with the dying man, William kept repeating the phrase "abide with me…". After leaving William's bedside, Lyte wrote the hymn and gave a copy of it to Le Hunte's family. 

There are clear Christian references: the opening line alludes to , "Abide with us: for it is toward evening, and the day is far spent", ( Lk. 24:29) and the penultimate verse draws on text from the Letter to the Corinthians  "O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?" (1 Cor 15:55); but ‘Abide With Me’ transcends the narrow confines of any religion. Its lyrics (translated into several languages all over the world) are undying and its melody so haunting. 

It doesn’t need much of a ‘rocket science’ knowledge to know why the Government has decided to obliterate a song of such nostalgia, importance and meaning. Some superfluous reasons are being floated: the colonial past, indigenisation etc. They hold no water. 

The Government will certainly not do away with the railways or many more vestiges from colonial rule. Besides the defence establishment may even collapse were they to stop importing arms and ammunition and other military equipment like the Rafale jets which are ‘phoren-made’. Will our politicians and bureaucrats and other powerful vested interests stop sending their children to study abroad or mint money in flush jobs in foreign countries?

India today has become a land of hypocrites, self-centred bigots who are determined to destroy everything that is precious in the country: from the Constitution to democratic principles, from pluralism to Gandhian values. They really don’t care about what is happening to the country as long as their interests are served. 

One person who has resolutely espoused the cause of ‘Abide With Me’ is Tushar Gandhi, the great- grandson of Mahatma Gandhi. In a communication to me a few days ago Tushar wrote:
“Hello Father Cedric, 

This is Tushar Gandhi from Mumbai. I am sending you an appeal I am making to Christian clergy please help distribute it in your circles too. Hope you are fine it has been a long time since we communicated. 
An Appeal

Mohandas Gandhi believed that it was the duty of every human to study and respect every religion, in pursuit of this he studied the holy scriptures of every religion. 

All his life, in all his Ashrams in South Africa and in India prayers were held every morning and evening. In them prayers from all religions were included and given equal importance. The Hymn ‘Abide With Me’ was one of his favourite Hymns and would be sung many times. After Independence, after India became a Republic, Republic Day commemoration would end with the Beating Retreat Ceremony on Raj Path on 29th January. Marching Bands of all three Services performed several songs. ‘Abide With Me’ was always performed all these years. 

It symbolises the syncretic culture of our nation where all religions were included and given an equal status and respect. This year inexplicably ‘Abide with Me’ has been replaced. It is hurtful more so because the next day January 30th is The Day Bapu was martyred in 1948. In his memory and as a tribute to his desire for an inclusive all embracing respectful and loving nation, Citizens of India should take it upon themselves to perform, recite or play, ‘Abide with me’ as a tribute to Mohandas Gandhi.

My Appeal to the Church is to sing ‘Abide With Me’ in as many Churches as possible all over India on 30th January this year, as a tribute to Mohandas Gandhi and as an affirmation of our Syncretic Culture and our secular belief of equal respect to all religions.

Unfortunately, today hate has taken center stage in our nation, changing the narrative of so many decades and corrupting the ideal on which our nation was founded. Gandhi said that hate must be countered solely with love, a very Christian ethic. Let us all make the singing, reciting or playing of ‘Abide With Me’ our reply to hate. Let love prevail. 

Sincerely,

Tushar Gandhi” 

Let us not be cowed down by cowards; when we give in to them and just acquiesce to their demands – we not only lose something for ourselves, but for the people of country and for the future. Perhaps at this juncture we need to take a cue from the words of ‘Abide With Me’: 

“I fear no foe, with Thee at hand to bless
Ills have no weight, and tears no bitterness
Where is death's sting?
Where, grave, thy victory?
I triumph still, if Thou abide with me”

Yes, to fear no one, because God is with us and we will triumph! ‘Abide With Me’ will stay forever!

(The writer is a human rights, reconciliation and peace activist/writer. Contact:cedricprakash@gmail.com)
 

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